Where has Erik Been?

24 Jul

Dear readers,

You may have noticed I’ve been a bit absent from the blogosphere (or maybe you haven’t in which case I need to do a better job 😉 ), I felt I need to explain what’s been going on.

I was on vacation at the beginning of July and upon getting back and then catching up with my work, our family suffered a very tragic accident. My aunt and three of her daughters were on a cross-country road trip from Pennsylvania to California. An adventure of a life time.

Beth, Lizzy, Savanna and Sequoia in California.

Sadly, in California, they had a terrible accident. The driver of their SUV fell asleep. The car ran down an embankment, hit a pole and overturned. My aunt and one of my cousins did not make it.

My cousin Savanna and Aunt Beth

My other two cousins were seriously injured. My uncle and his eldest daughter flew out to California to be with the girls.

Uncle Aleko, Lizzy, Sequoia and Cousin Tessa at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Eureka CA

After some negotiating, the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia sent 2 ambulance jets out to California to bring the girls back. They did this free of charge through Wings of Grace.  Our family is eternally grateful to them.

The girls are back on the East Coast now and can be with our family. We finally got to go visit with them yesterday. The girls (Lizzy, 14 and Sequoia, 17) are incredible strong. I could believe they can manage a smile after what they’ve been through. Their bodies are broken, but are in superior medical care at CHOP. Their spirits remain unbroken even in the face of the loss of their mother and sister. 


Lizzy has Urinary Retention, a
Pelvic Fracture,
Pelvic Hematoma,
Subarachnoid Hemorrhage,
Compression Fracture,
Pulmonary Contusion,
Right Foot Fracture

Sequoia has a Pelvic Fracture, Lumbar Spine Fracture, Pneumothorax, Right Cervical Spine Fracture, Bilateral Pulmonary Contusion, Closed Right Tarsal, Navicular Fracture, Internal Carotid Artery Dissection, Elbow Fracture, C6 Nerve Root Injury

Our entire family is in mourning but staying strong for Lizzy and Sequoia.

I am sorry for bringing all of this sad news on a Monday. I just wanted to let everyone know what was going on so you don’t think I gave up on my blog. I just haven’t had my heart into it – or even opening emails. After seeing the girls yesterday, I feel a new sense of strength and resolve.

If you would like to help, please send positive thoughts and prayers for the girls (they feel it!) and/or my cousin, Monique has set up a Go Fund Me account to help with the girl’s medical needs – click HERE to go to it

They have additional surgeries to go through and a long recovery period – and that’s just the physical part.

My blog will return to its normal schedule and I will be working at catching up. Thank you all for taking the time to read my posts! I appreciate all of you!

46 Responses to “Where has Erik Been?”

  1. The Story Reading Ape July 24, 2017 at 12:26 pm #

    So sorry to hear about your Aunt Beth and cousin Savanna, Erik – Lizzy and Sequoia are obviously hurting physically and mentally, but determined to stay brave and smile. ❤️

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  2. Genevieve Petrillo July 24, 2017 at 12:35 pm #

    OMGoodness, E. What a thing for a family to have to go through. We are astounded at the courage of Sequoia and Lizzy. We said prayers for your whole family to have the strength to heal from this. We also said prayers for the doctors, nurses, and caregivers to be wise and compassionate as they walk through this with all of you.

    Love and licks,
    Cupcake and Mom

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  3. Joanne R. Fritz July 24, 2017 at 12:41 pm #

    Erik! So very sorry about your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your cousins as they recuperate from their ordeal. And no worries about blogging. It’s not important compared to your family.

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  4. rnewman504 July 24, 2017 at 12:43 pm #

    Erik, I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. 💜

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  5. Debbie Dadey July 24, 2017 at 12:47 pm #

    So terribly sorry! I will keep your family in my prayers, Debbie

    Sent from my iPhone


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  6. Darlene July 24, 2017 at 12:54 pm #

    I am so terribly sorry to hear this. I am sending positive thoughts to you, your family and especially your two cousins who are showing incredible bravery. Sending many hugs and prayers your way. Keep us posted. xo

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  7. Ali Pfautz July 24, 2017 at 1:11 pm #

    So sorry to hear this news Erik! Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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  8. Danielle Smith July 24, 2017 at 1:17 pm #

    Oh, Erik. In behalf of everyone at Walden Pond Press I want to express our deepest and most sincerest sympathies. This kind of loss and hardship is so difficult and is so worth your time away. Please know we at WPP are all thinking of you and sending our love, thoughts and good energy to you and your extended family. – Danielle, Debbie, Jordan, Sophia and Kara xx

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  9. Christine, HappyAtHome July 24, 2017 at 1:35 pm #

    Oh. My. Goodness. I am so sorry your family is dealing with this. I’m sorry for your loss. My positive thoughts and prayers are heading everyone’s way, especially for your uncle and surviving cousins in their family – but, truly for everyone. No one should have to experience this. I’m happy to hear the positive spirit Lizzy and Sequoia have, it will make a huge difference in their healing and ability to move forward. {{{hugs}}} and, yes, I did miss your posts. May your family all find some comfort and peace in the difficult days ahead. Thank you for sharing with us.

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  10. Caroline July 24, 2017 at 1:39 pm #

    Oh I’m so sorry. Stay strong and positive with your family. I’m sending good thoughts.

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  11. Bish Denham July 24, 2017 at 2:31 pm #

    I can’t even imagine what your family is going through. Sending lots of healing thoughts and prayers.

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  12. Patricia Tilton July 24, 2017 at 2:32 pm #

    Erik, I am so sorry for your family loss. Sending prayers and love to your entire family, especially Lizzy and Sequoia as they deal with both physical and emotional healing. It is always difficult to deal with tragedy and loss, but I’m glad you are doing so as a family. It warmed my heart to know that there are organizations like Wings of Grace who so generously flew your cousins home to Philadelphia. Thank you for sharing with us.

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  13. Victoria Zigler (@VictoriaZigler) July 24, 2017 at 3:27 pm #

    I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your aunt and cousin. I hope your other two cousins are being kept comfortable while they heal, and that they make a full recovery.

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  14. mfearing July 24, 2017 at 3:31 pm #

    So sorry to hear. There’s not much else one can say is there? All my best to you and your family in making it through this. I’ve had my share of hospitals since April and I know it’s trying. Be well. – M

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  15. Julie July 24, 2017 at 4:03 pm #

    Oh Eric, your family are in our prayers. So heart broken for the girls.

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  16. Alan Tucker July 24, 2017 at 4:04 pm #

    Heartfelt condolences for your family’s loss, Erik. Sending positive thoughts for a speedy recovery to your two cousins!

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  17. Anonymous July 24, 2017 at 4:12 pm #

    Hugs and ❤️ To you and all of the Weibel’s!


  18. Michelle Isenhoff July 24, 2017 at 4:34 pm #

    I’m so sorry to hear this, Erik. What a tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  19. jama July 24, 2017 at 4:45 pm #

    Very sorry to hear this sad news, Erik. Sending love, prayers, and deepest condolences to you and your family. I’m glad Lizzy and Sequoia are now back on the East Coast with all of you to help them on their road to recovery. Thanks for letting us know and explaining your absence. Of course we missed you; do take all the time you need to feel emotionally ready to blog again. Meanwhile, know that we’re all thinking of you and wishing for the best.

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  20. Diane Tulloch July 24, 2017 at 5:10 pm #

    I am so sorry and saddened to hear this news, Erik. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and especially for Lizzy and Sequoia. I’m glad to hear the girls are now with family and I know you will be strong for them to help them in their healing over the next trying months. We love and miss you. As Jama says above, don’t hurry back till you are ready. We are always thinking of you. Hugs from kiwiland.

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  21. Angela Brown July 24, 2017 at 6:14 pm #

    Praying for you and your family during this time of mourning and transition. ❤

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  22. Joanna July 24, 2017 at 6:21 pm #

    Erik, I was so very sad to read this tragic news. I am very sorry for your family’s loss and send Lizzy and Sequoia and their sister and dad my best thoughts. I am grateful there is love and care in your family and also for organizations like Wings of Grace.

    Of course we missed you, but family health and healing is far more important. We will be here whenever you need us.

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  23. maliaann July 24, 2017 at 6:23 pm #

    Reblogged this on Writing for the Whole Darn Universe.

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  24. Lisa Orchard July 24, 2017 at 7:33 pm #

    I’m so sorry to hear this, Erik. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  25. Jilanne Hoffmann July 24, 2017 at 7:52 pm #

    I’m so sorry, Erik, for your family’s tragic loss. Sending best wishes from across the miles. Don’t worry about your readers. We’ll still be here whenever you do return. Take care.

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  26. Kit Grindstaff July 24, 2017 at 8:55 pm #

    oh Erik, that’s terrible news. I’m so so sorry for your family’s unimaginable loss. Sending prayers for Lizzy and Sequoia, and their dad and sister, and condolences to you all.

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  27. Laura Miller July 24, 2017 at 9:04 pm #

    May God bring healing to their hearts and bodies and strength for the days ahead. May he also comfort all of you in your sorrow. Amen.

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  28. Wynne Marshall July 24, 2017 at 9:56 pm #

    I’m so very sad to hear this, Erik. My deepest condolences for the loss of your aunt and cousin, and my prayers for the continued recovery of LIzzy and Sequoia.

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  29. Diane M. Robinson aka spirthill99 July 24, 2017 at 10:09 pm #

    Sending love and prayers.

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  30. Donna Earnhardt July 24, 2017 at 10:22 pm #

    I’m so sorry, Erik. I pray your cousins will all find peace in the midst of their recovery… and health and joy in the hard days to come.

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  31. Meg July 24, 2017 at 11:26 pm #

    I’m so sorry this has happened. Definitely sending prayers and positive thoughts for all. Praying for speedy and complete healing for your cousins. Prayers for hearts to be eased in this time of sorrow. I can’t even imagine how hard this is. Big hugs to all. ❤

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  32. S.W.Lothian | Author July 25, 2017 at 4:22 am #

    Erik, it’s terrible to hear such bad news. My thoughts are with you and your family. Sending positive vibes.

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    • schmelzb July 25, 2017 at 7:03 am #

      Of course we missed you. I thought I had a computer glitch when your blogs did not appear regularly. I know you will spend the time with your cousins holding hands and maybe reading to them from your great recommendations. I loved the adventures in Gordon Korman’s Masterminds series of books. The characters are realistic and show strength in times of conflict! All my best to you and your family. Beth

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  33. Lynn A. Davidson July 25, 2017 at 7:15 am #

    Erik, dear, I was stunned by the news when your mom told me. It’s so tragic there are hardly words … so please know your family is being loved and prayed for which is all I can do.
    On another note, yes, I wondered about your absence, and – like others have said before me – just take your time. As great as books are, they can wait.
    Much love to you.

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  34. randomlyreading July 25, 2017 at 10:36 am #

    I have wonder where you have been, but assumed it was on a wonderful vacation. Your news was indeed stunning and I am so, so sorry for the tragedy that has befallen your family. The photo of the four beautiful women at the beginning of your post really brings home the magnitude of your loss. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.

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  35. Debbie Brown July 25, 2017 at 10:58 am #

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss, Erik. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

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  36. One Man Book Club July 25, 2017 at 10:58 am #

    Prayers for your family.

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  37. Rhonda Paglia, Children's Author July 25, 2017 at 3:54 pm #

    Oh Erik, I’m so very sorry to hear about your loss and the tragedy. My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending you love, prayers, and special healing angels to surround you all. ❤

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  38. Renee LaTulippe July 25, 2017 at 6:48 pm #

    Erik, I am so deeply saddened for your family’s tremendous loss. There are simply no words. All I can do is send healing hugs, my deepest condolences, and all my heartfelt wishes for your cousins’ and family’s recovery. ❤ ❤ ❤

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  39. Beth Stilborn July 25, 2017 at 7:40 pm #

    Oh my. Erik, I am so very sorry to read this. My heart goes out to you and your family as you go through this heartbreaking time. May you all, and especially Lizzy and Sequoia, know strength and courage through this time of grieving and healing. As others have said, take your time about getting back to blogging. We’ll be here for you whenever you’re ready. And our thoughts are with you now.

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  40. ccarpinello July 26, 2017 at 12:44 am #

    So sorry to hear of this tragedy. Praying everyone stays strong.

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  41. yvettecarol July 26, 2017 at 12:56 am #

    My sincere sympathies, Erik, to you and your family. What a sad story and yet such a tribute to the human spirit.

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  42. fleurbradley July 26, 2017 at 10:17 am #

    All best to you and your family, Erik. How sad, but how strong they are.

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  43. donnagalanti July 27, 2017 at 2:27 pm #

    Erik, I am so truly sorry to hear about this terrible tragedy in your family. I truly hope they recover quickly and have much support around them now to help them through – and you too.

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  44. Oh my goodness! I’m so sorry for your family, Erick. I will be praying for them!

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  45. Anonymous August 1, 2017 at 10:33 am #

    Dear Erik, Thank you so much for your wonderful work putting all this together. Love, Bur Bur

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